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Misunderstood, Unfiltered, and Purpose-Fueled
May
In this second part of our conversation, we peel back the layers on being misunderstood, the unseen weight of business ownership, and the quiet power of living authentically. If you’ve ever felt like you’re figuring it out as you go—this one’s for you.
“I work really hard, but I don’t take life too seriously.”
That line lingered with me. Because behind the grit, the schedules, and the responsibilities—we’re still human. Still laughing. Still figuring it out.
We started this part of the conversation by talking about how people often misunderstand who we really are.
“The kid within me is still right there. I’m goofy, chill, and lighthearted.”
In an online world where images and titles dominate perception, it’s easy to be judged by surface-level snapshots. But real connection? That lives in the unfiltered parts.
Authenticity, she said, is her compass:
“If we’re all authentic, we’ll be fine. People who are real online and in person? That’s who I want around me.”
Living It, Not Just Posting It
We explored the power of living your truth—not just talking about it. Especially as someone whose journey includes personal growth, business leadership, and motherhood.
“You can’t say one thing and live another. Being honest gives you peace. You’re not afraid of being caught out because there’s nothing to hide.”
It’s a reminder that integrity isn’t loud—it’s steady. And it shows up in how you lead, love, and live.
The Reality of Building Something From Scratch
We dove into entrepreneurship next—and it got real fast.
“I was naive. I thought it’d be a cute space people hire out. No one told me about insurance, admin, overhead, staff, and cash flow.”
She said it with a laugh, but the lessons were hard-won. Still, there’s something sacred about not knowing exactly what you’re stepping into. It gives you the courage to leap.
“It’s like having a baby. No days off. It needs attention, nourishment, a village.”
“Sometimes I’m just proud of myself.”
That moment hit differently. It’s not something many of us say out loud, but it matters.
“I didn’t know I had this in me. I’m not from a business family. I’m creating a new path.”
We talked about the unique joy that comes with that journey—the kind that can’t be bought, only built. It’s not just a job. It’s a calling.
Managing Chaos with Care
As the conversation shifted to balance, we both smiled. Because balance is often just intentional chaos.
“My life is chaotic. But family comes first. Everything else fits around that.”
Structure is what makes it possible. Calendars, planning, protected time.
“Every hour is accounted for. It has to be. Otherwise, it all falls apart.”
The freedom to rest, travel, or unplug may not be fully accessible yet—but discipline creates pockets of peace. And that’s enough for now.
Purpose Isn’t a Role—It’s a Way of Being
To close, I asked her what she’d say to someone trying to find their purpose. Her answer was simple, powerful, and real:
“Don’t attach your purpose to a title or role—not even being a mom. Be authentic. Pray. And don’t be afraid to fail.”
And about the people behind her?
“My family is everything. They’re number one. Your business can collapse, but your people—they’re for life.”
